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5 Types of Sex Married Couples Need

March 26, 2013 by 2 Comments

5 Types of Sex Every Married Couple Needs

What’s a better stress reliever than a proverbial “roll in the hay” with your spouse? In addition to the spiritual and the personal connections that we have with one another. We must also keep the physical in the forefront as well. It only takes a little tweaking every once in a while to keep your bedroom spicy! Here are 5 types of sex that every married couple needs.

1. Role Playing Sex

Sound corny? Don’t knock it ’til you try it. You should be able to have fun and be free around your life partner, so have at it. You can be whomever and whatever you want to be, as long as it’s sexy. Even if you’re not a good actor, you’ll end up having fun and close enough to let the real fun begin!

2. The Quickie

Don’t look like that! This is awesome adrenaline delivery – which gives us a rush and makes us feel exhilarating. This is just another fun way to keep your love life healthy and your sex life hot. Whether it’s during a lunch break or with a house full during holiday dinner. I absolutely love it when my husband and I have a hot secret and our eyes meet in a crowded room. It makes you feel good inside. You’re also guaranteed to be on his/her mind, very frequently, for the rest of the day!

3. Me. Jane. You. Tarzan.

The next time your honey is dripping with sweat after a workout, don’t run away. Instead, pull them into you and let nature and the laws of attraction become an aphrodisiac. Post-workout sweat contains androstadienone, a testosterone derivative that elevates female arousal when she gets a whiff of it. A bonus: You’ll burn even more calories in the process.

4. Makeup Sex

I, personally, find it rather difficult to get in the mood when I’m upset, but from many married sources, comes the similar consensus that makeup sex is the best sex of them all. I can see how emotions and adrenaline could possibly turn into exceptional love-making. At least you know when you do this, that you’re in a marriage that can hit the bumps in the road and together you can both channel your anger into sexual energy.

5. Open Up The Pleasure Chest

Every couple should start a “pleasure chest” when they are newly married. This chest contains all types of toys and other stuff that you may not need right after your nuptials, but later on down the road. Take a trip together to an adult store and pick out some goodies that are sure to make your nights memorable. Also, ladies when we’re invited to those “toy parties”, we should not be ashamed, but look at this as investment towards a healthy and fun sex life with our wonderful spouses!

What other types of sex do you think married couples need?

 

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7 Ways To Flirt With Your Man!

February 17, 2013 by 2 Comments
photo credit: Lancescurv.com

photo credit: Lancescurv.com

The act of flirting is still alive and well! Don’t ever stop doing it. If you’ve ever stopped, get back to it. It’s always a win-win for everybody, that’s sure to lead somewhere that you BOTH wanna go. Flirting is an art. To some, it comes naturally. Just make sure that you’re using it when and where it matters the most and of course, that is anytime, any place, and with your spouse!

1. It’s all about the eyes.

Make sure that you undress him with those eyes. You know, that quick up and down action. It’s not only for the guys. Ladies…give it a try! Softly bite your bottom lip too, while you’re at it, for good measure.

2. Grab him.

Playfully give him a tap and make it Rated G, when the kids are around, but kick it up a notch when no one’s around. Try it before he heads out to work in the morning.

3. Let him choose.

We know that as women we can make our own decisions, but why not let HIM in on the action every once in a while? Lay out a couple of bra and panty sets and request his help with the choice of the day? What better way to have him thinking about “his choice” all. day. long?

4. Talk softly.

We’re always talking and yelling loudly, especially when there’s chaos and kids around. Speak softly and draw him closer to you so that he can hear the soft words that you’re speaking. Just make sure that what you’re whispering is the start of something good, because you’ve got him right there!

5. Surprise him!

No, you don’t have to pop out of a cake, and yell surprise!! Just leave one of Victoria’s little secrets in a hiding spot that he’d least expect. Guaranteed to make him smile. NOTE: Please not in his briefcase! We want you to PLAY with fire, not get him FIRED! If you’re skeptical about planting this sweet little surprise, try just leaving a post-it note first, and see how that goes!

6. Feel sexy. Be sexy!

I’m sure at this point in your relationship, he’s shared what he finds most attractive about your body. Whether it’s putting on something hot and racy that plays up and accentuates your assets, or just wearing one of his over-sized t-shirts, make him look! Most of all, make him like what he sees!

7. Kiss him.

Sounds simple, right? Kiss him at a time that he’d least expect it. Catch him off guard and he’ll be sure to return the favor!

Keep the fun going. Keep the fire burning! Most of all, keep the love and affection in the forefront, and the rest will follow.

Let us in on a few of your “flirty little secrets”…
Keeping it Smart & Sassy (KISS),

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How comfortable are you around your mate?

July 24, 2012 by 2 Comments

 

black woman head wrap

Not the most attractive thing to look at….

After ten years of being with my husband, he and I have slowly grown more comfortable when it comes to doing certain things around one another. What I mean is, in the beginning of every relationship, we all know that there is always that period of extreme courtesy and concern for what the other person may think. I remembered when my husband and I were dating, he asked why he never saw any  feminine products. I told him I was raised to handle these things privately and discreetly and he probably never will see it. He was somewhat in shock. Looking back, I also recall that it took years for him to see me without makeup – even after we were married. Just felt naked without my under-eye concealer….I still do!

I’ve always found it interesting how comfortable other couples are in their relationship with one another. I’m not talking about a new couple that just started dating and still trying to impress one another. I’m referring to how comfortable a husband is around his wife and vice versa.  It’s always amusing, yet surprising, what some people get all worked up about and will not do in front of one another. One of my friends refuses to brush her teeth in front of her husband – to whom she’s been married for 12 years. She finds it to be an incredibly gross and personal experience. (Unbelievable!) Another one of my friends refuses to ‘burp’ around her husband. (Really? Am I an ogre!?) And then there’s my really close friend who will, under no circumstances, wear hair rollers, a wrap or a scarf on her head at night and they have been married for 17 years!! (Amazing!) And then there’s my sweet little mom who feels like no man should ever know your weight. (Give me a break Mom, really?) Oh well…

While I do believe there are always exceptions to the rules, I believe there are very few things that should be off-limits, especially when you’re married. I feel that the person you are married to (or intending to marry) should feel comfortable around you doing, saying or seeing just about anything. LADIES: I believe that a wife should toss the sweats and over-sized college t-shirts to the side and put on nice, fashionable, lounge wear, sexy slipper and spritz a little of your signature fragrance behind your ear (or wherever he’s sure to smell it). I guarantee, that while he will insist it’s not NECESSARY, he will appreciate it.

Ten years with my honey…besides the fact he is completely and utterly grossed out by noise-making bodily functions from himself and others, I feel very comfortable in my skin around him. Hey, I’m not pressing the gas issue….He may know something I don’t know, so I’m grateful for his discretion. Some might say I’m a lucky girl!

Do you have anything that is an absolute “no-can-do” when it comes to your mate?

 

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